Getting over mom's reaction to coming out.?

My mom had a similar, but worse reaction. You must realize that this isn't your fault. You should be the one who is reaching out to her. The more she gets around you and other s, the more likely she is to get over it. Its not your wall to climb, its hers. I would suggest small things, like a phonecall a week, then move up to dinner, but only if things go well. Imbso sorry that all this is happening. I know how it is.